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Q&A: Why each spouse should have a credit card in their own name

August 18, 2025 By Liz Weston Leave a Comment

Dear Liz: My husband was the primary account holder on our credit cards and I was the authorized user. When he recently passed away, I was told I had to close the cards. I have tried to open my own credit cards and have been declined by two banks because my debt is too high. I am the co-signer for my two daughters’ mortgages, making it look like I owe more than $1 million. My daughters have always made the monthly payments and have done so for six years. I also have almost $1 million in investments. I told the bankers I could bring in these documents as proof I’m credit card worthy and they said they don’t look at outside evidence, only the credit reports. So here I am, in my 60s without a credit card. Should I just settle and be an authorized user on my daughters’ cards? What can I do?

Answer: Thank you for providing another vivid example of why it’s important for each spouse to have one or two credit cards in their own names. Many people don’t realize that credit cards typically aren’t jointly held, and the death of the primary account holder can leave them cut off from credit.

Being added as an authorized user to your daughters’ cards is a good first step. You also might consider approaching a credit union, since these member-owned financial institutions are often more flexible about granting credit than the typical big bank.

Unfortunately, these mortgages will continue to affect your debt-to-income ratio until they’re paid off or your daughters refinance — and given the low rate they presumably got, refinancing is not likely to be an attractive solution.

Q&A: Credit cards and co-signers

February 4, 2025 By Liz Weston

Dear Liz: My son is in his mid-20s. He has a credit card that we co-signed and that has a credit limit he would likely not qualify for on his own. He would like to remove us as co-signers as he starts to take more personal control of his finances. Would it make more sense to apply for a new card using only his income information, and then slowly stop using the old card? Or is it better just to take the hit on his credit rating now and request our removal from the old card?

Answer: It’s not clear whether you’ll be able to bow out of this arrangement without closing the card. Most major credit card issuers don’t allow co-signers. More typically, parents would add their children as authorized users. While the parents can remove their children from the account, the opposite isn’t true.

If this is a co-signed card, the issuer may have an option for removing you. Your son will need to call and ask.

In general, though, it would be better for his credit to apply for a card on his own and leave this account open.

Q&A: After her husband died, a widow’s credit limit plummeted

September 2, 2024 By Liz Weston

Dear Liz: You’ve mentioned how important it is for spouses to each have credit cards on which they are the primary account holder. My husband died last year. We had a credit card with statements that showed the charges we each had made on our separately numbered credit cards. I found the account was in his name only. I had to get a new credit card in my own name, and the credit limit dropped from $75,000 to $7,000. Hope this warns others.

Answer: It bears repeating that most credit cards these days are not joint accounts. If two of you are using a card, one is probably the primary account holder and the other the authorized user.

After a primary account holder dies, credit card companies are often willing to work with surviving spouses who were authorized users to establish new accounts. But as you experienced, the credit limits for these new accounts may be much lower than those of the original.

Q&A: What to do with a drawer full of unused credit cards?

August 19, 2024 By Liz Weston

Dear Liz: At 75 and 79, my husband and I have no plans to buy a new car or property. We own our home and cars. We have excellent credit ratings. We use one major credit card. I’m consolidating our financial life for our heirs. We have a drawer full of cards we never use. Is there any reason not to just cancel these cards and save our heirs the trouble? Should I care if my 850 credit score tanks?

Answer: At this point, simplifying your finances probably makes more sense than trying to keep your credit scores as high as they can possibly be.

Cards you aren’t using still need to be monitored for fraud, which is a hassle, plus you may be paying unnecessary annual fees. Reducing the number of accounts should make your life easier, but don’t go too far.

As explained in previous columns, each spouse should have at least one card on which they are the primary account holder. A spouse who is an authorized user often loses access to the card when the primary account holder dies and card issuers close the account. Few credit card issuers offer joint accounts these days, so you should determine who is the primary account holder and who is the authorized user on each of your cards before deciding which to close.

You can reduce the damage to your scores by trying to preserve as much of your current credit limits as possible. Ideally, the cards you keep will be the ones with the highest limits. If you’re closing other accounts at your chosen issuer, you can ask that the credit limits for the shuttered cards be transferred to the card you’re keeping.

Q&A: My kids grew up. Will their credit scores go down?

June 24, 2024 By Liz Weston

Dear Liz: Many years ago I took out a credit card to pay for my two children’s college expenses. They were authorized users for miscellaneous expenses. They no longer use or even have access to the cards. Now they are both in stable, well-paying jobs. I would like to keep the card but remove the authorized users. How would this affect their credit scores? Or mine, for that matter?

Answer: You helped your kids establish good credit by adding them as authorized users. Removing them won’t affect your credit scores. The effect on their scores depends on how well they’ve managed credit on their own.

The impact should be minimal if they’ve continued to build credit by opening their own credit cards and paying those on time. Ideally, for credit-building purposes, they’ll also have a solid history paying an installment loan, such as a mortgage, student loan or auto loan.

If they haven’t used credit much and have a thin file — generally, fewer than five accounts showing on their credit reports — the damage might be more significant. If that’s the case, you may want to delay removing them as authorized users while they open other lines of credit. They should know that they don’t have to carry debt to have good credit: Just using credit cards lightly and paying the balances in full should do the job.

Q&A: What happens to joint credit cards after your spouse dies?

November 27, 2023 By Liz Weston

Dear Liz: My husband died last year and we have three credit cards in his name with me as authorized user. When applying for new credit, do I still use his name or my name now? And should I remove his name and put my name only on all accounts?

Answer: You’ll apply for new credit in your own name, using your own credit history and income. If your credit cards are joint accounts, you can simply ask the issuers to remove your husband’s name.

Here’s the thing, though: Few credit cards these days are joint accounts. Typically there is a primary cardholder and an authorized user. When the primary cardholder dies, credit card issuers usually close the account, often within a few weeks.

Issuers normally find out about the death from the person settling the estate or from the Social Security Administration. Social Security, in its turn, usually learns about the death from the funeral home or from the person settling the estate.

It’s possible there has simply been an oversight, but you’ll want to make sure your husband’s death has been properly reported to Social Security and his creditors. If you are an authorized user rather than a joint account holder, you may find the card issuers will work with you to get replacement cards although you may have to settle for a smaller credit limit if your income has dropped (which is unfortunately a common situation for survivors).