Dear Liz: My son is in his mid-20s. He has a credit card that we co-signed and that has a credit limit he would likely not qualify for on his own. He would like to remove us as co-signers as he starts to take more personal control of his finances. Would it make more sense to apply for a new card using only his income information, and then slowly stop using the old card? Or is it better just to take the hit on his credit rating now and request our removal from the old card?
Answer: It’s not clear whether you’ll be able to bow out of this arrangement without closing the card. Most major credit card issuers don’t allow co-signers. More typically, parents would add their children as authorized users. While the parents can remove their children from the account, the opposite isn’t true.
If this is a co-signed card, the issuer may have an option for removing you. Your son will need to call and ask.
In general, though, it would be better for his credit to apply for a card on his own and leave this account open.