• Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar

Ask Liz Weston

Get smart with your money

  • About
  • Liz’s Books
  • Speaking
  • Disclosure
  • Contact

Q&A: Am I eligible for my ex-husband’s Social Security?

June 8, 2026 By Liz Weston

Dear Liz: My ex-husband and I were married for 10 years. I married again, but am now a widow. I was told I could collect benefits on my prior marriage when my ex-husband passes. But, now that I’m a widow, I am wondering if I’m eligible to collect on my ex-husband’s record, though he is living. I’m currently getting my late husband’s benefit.

Answer: You could be entitled to a divorced spousal benefit based on your ex’s earning’s record. The divorced spousal benefit could be up to half of your ex’s benefit at his full retirement age. You would only collect that amount if it was greater than what you are currently receiving, however. You can call Social Security to check if you’re entitled to a larger benefit.

To recap: Survivor benefits are up to 100% of what the primary worker received at their death, while spousal benefits are up to half of what the (still living) primary worker would receive at full retirement age. Someone who is divorced can be entitled to benefits based on their ex’s’ work records if the marriage lasted at least 10 years.

Related Posts

  • Q&A: Could my husband's ex claim his Social Security?

    Dear Liz: My question is regarding spousal Social Security. My husband and I have been married…

  • Q&A: An ex-husband is delaying his Social Security benefits. Must she wait, too?

    Dear Liz: I read your column about divorced spousal benefits for Social Security. I was divorced…

  • How your ex could boost your Social Security

    Katja Rivera, 64, is a massage therapist and theater director in Berkeley, California, who says…

  • Q&A: Survivor Social Security benefit

    Dear Liz: When you discuss a survivor receiving 50% of their spouse’s Social Security benefit, are…

Filed Under: Couples & Money, Q&A, Social Security Tagged With: divorced spousal benefit, divorced survivor benefit, spousal benefits, survivor benefits, widow benefitss, widows

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Tim says

    June 21, 2026 at 9:23 am

    Liz,
    I’m 67 yo male, still working and plan to as long as I can, waiting as long as possible to take social security benefits. My wife of 18 years and I are unfortunately going through a divorce. She has never worked in this country. I’m hoping you can help me figure out what her benefit will be if I live until 70 and/or if I die before or after. Does it change if she or I remarry?
    Thanks,

  2. Susan Emmett says

    June 26, 2026 at 4:59 pm

    I was married 37 years, 7 children, divorced 29 years ago. At 62, I needed to claim SS because I needed the monthly. I was never told that if I had waited a few more years, my monthly would be much better. Learned that when it was too late. They did tell me that if my EX died before me, I would be entitled to have my amount bounced to what he was collecting. He probably WILL die before me due to some serious health problems. But….this is what I don’t know. He remarried someone who is collecting SS at “some level” (I know not what), but her husband had died. Does she NOW become the one who collects my ex’s monthly amount if he dies before her, which would mean she would be collecting two checks a month? And I would loose my ability to have my amount increased to “whatever” that amount would be (whatever it is, I’m pretty sure it would significantly raise my mthly check. I just want to be prepared for what I can expect when/if he departs before me. Thanks for whatever you can tell me. I read your column every time it’s in my newspaper!

Primary Sidebar

Search

Copyright © 2026 · Ask Liz Weston 2.0 On Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in