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Soon-to-be ex wants cash-out refinance

December 17, 2012 By Liz Weston

Dear Liz: My soon-to-be ex wants to refinance our mortgage to pay for renovations so we can sell it for more money. He also wants to take out some cash to pay off unsecured loans. (I have $11,000 in credit card debt, and he has over $50,000.) The house recently appraised for $310,000 and we owe $158,000 on it. Is it wise to refinance in this circumstance?

Answer: A cash-out refinance would be a risky maneuver even if you intended to stay married. Renovations rarely boost a home sale price enough to cover their cost. Also, home equity that’s used to pay off credit card bills is often wasted, since the borrower never fixes the problem that led to overspending in the first place and simply runs up more debt. Since he would be getting the bulk of the benefit by having more of his debt paid off, you also would need to adjust the rest of your property settlement.

Often, the best and easiest solution in a divorce is to simply sell the house. You certainly wouldn’t want to remain on a mortgage with an ex after the divorce was final, if you could possibly avoid it. A good divorce attorney can give you advice about how to proceed from here.

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Filed Under: Couples & Money, Credit & Debt, Q&A, Real Estate Tagged With: couples and money, Divorce, mortgage, mortgage refinancings, refinancing

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  1. gardenjack says

    December 25, 2012 at 11:25 pm

    Do NOT give this guy more money. DO get a good attorney and financial advisor. Protect yourself!

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