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Q&A: What do you do when an ex takes out a credit card in your name?

November 24, 2025 By Liz Weston Leave a Comment

Dear Liz: My ex-husband took out a credit card in my name without my knowledge. By the time I discovered it on a credit report, he had over $14,000 in charges on the card. I was able to close the credit card, but cannot remove my name and Social Security number from the account. My ex refuses to pay off the credit card nor does he make payments on the card as a judge ordered him to do in court six months ago. I have called the issuing bank, visited in person, spoken with everyone that I can, to no avail. The best they can do is flag the card for fraud. Since the credit card is not being paid off, it is damaging my credit score. Do you have any advice?

Answer: Report the crime to your local police and file an identity theft complaint with the Federal Trade Commission at IdentityTheft.gov. The police report means your ex could be arrested and prosecuted for his crime, but without it you may not be able to get your credit restored.

Submit copies of the police report and the FTC affidavit to the bank, along with a letter explaining the situation. Make it clear that you are the victim of identity theft, that the account is fraudulent and that the bank should remove your personal identifying information when reporting the account to the credit bureaus.

Next, dispute the account with each of the three major credit bureaus. You can get free access to your credit reports at AnnualCreditReport.com. (Type the full address into your browser to make sure you don’t land on a lookalike site.) While you’re at it, freeze your credit report at each bureau. There’s no better way to prevent criminals from opening new credit accounts in your name. Freezing your credit report is free, and you can temporarily remove the freeze without cost whenever you want to apply for credit.

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Filed Under: Credit Cards, Divorce & Money, Identity Theft, Q&A Tagged With: AnnualCreditReport.com, Credit Bureaus, criminal identity theft, Identity Theft

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