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Q&A: The thought of ending up old and alone can be terrifying. It doesn’t have to be that way

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Dear Liz: My wife and I have no children to take care of us in our old age, and I am scared to death regarding what will happen to the surviving spouse when one of us dies or we become incapacitated. We are 69 and 67 respectively and I think a lot of “boomers” are facing this issue. Any thoughts?

Answer: Consider getting a copy of the book “Essential Retirement Planning for Solo Agers: A Retirement and Aging Roadmap for Single and Childless Adults” by certified retirement coach Sara Zeff Geber. The NextAvenue site also has a wealth of information on how to prepare for aging and incapacity if you don’t have kids or don’t have ones you can rely on.

Geber provides far too much valuable information to summarize here, but one important strategy is to create a strong social network. Not only can this combat social isolation and loneliness — which are as dangerous to your health as smoking — but these folks can help look out for you and vice versa.

If your social circle is small or you’re out of the habit of making new friends, consider activities that put you in contact with others such as volunteering, taking classes or joining exercise groups. Also check out the Village to Village Network, a nonprofit that helps people age in place by encouraging groups of neighbors to help one another with rides, services and activities.

Living in close proximity to others and in areas with robust social services also can make a huge difference for solo agers. Another option, if you have the means, is to consider a continuing care retirement community that allows independent living to start, with assisted living and sometimes nursing home care as needed.

Every adult needs an advance healthcare directive, such as the free ones at Prepare for Your Care. These documents allow someone you trust to make health decisions if you should become incapacitated. It’s OK to name your spouse, but you also should have at least one and preferably two or more backups. Filling one out can help you think deeply about the people currently in your life you can trust with this task, and may encourage you to deepen those ranks if they’ve gotten a little thin.

Q&A: Finding a fiduciary

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Dear Liz: I am 55 and a single mom of three teenagers. My money has been sitting at a discount brokerage firm unmanaged … ugh!! I need help, but I am afraid to hire someone who will lose my money. Plus, two of my kids are old enough now to open a retirement account. We need help!

Answer: There’s actually no age minimum on contributing to a retirement fund; your kids just need to be earning at least as much money as they’re putting into the account. If they want to contribute the maximum $6,500 to an IRA, for example — or you want to contribute that much on their behalf — they have to earn at least $6,500.

The word you’ll want to keep in mind when seeking help with your money is “fiduciary.” Your advisor should be willing to put in writing that they will put your interests ahead of their own.

Many advisors are held to a lower “suitability” standard, which means they can recommend investments that are more expensive or perform worse than available alternatives, simply because the recommended investment pays the advisor more.

You don’t actually need a human being for investment management, though. Your investing firm probably offers target date mutual funds, which adjust the mix of investments to be more conservative as your retirement date nears. Another option is a robo-advisor, which handles the investing according to a computer algorithm.

Where a human can come in handy is if you have broader financial questions, such as whether you’re saving enough, when you can safely retire and whether your family is adequately insured, among other issues. Your discount brokerage may offer access to fiduciary advisors for a fee or in exchange for investing a certain amount of money.

You can also find fiduciary advisors through the Assn. for Financial Counseling and Planning Education, the XY Planning Network, the Garrett Planning Network, the National Assn. of Personal Financial Advisors and the Alliance of Comprehensive Planners, among others.

Q&A: How to get a debt collector to stop calling about a bogus bill

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Dear Liz: I’m getting daily robocalls from a debt collection agency, even though a check of our current credit reports shows that we owe no one anything. (My husband and I both have stellar credit.) Google tells me that this collection agency is known for shadiness and that the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau has fined it for illegal debt collection practices and repeated violations of consumer reporting rules. I want to make these annoying daily calls stop (I never answer) but I worry that engaging with this company at all, for instance with a letter telling them to go away, will just cause more problems. What’s the best way to handle this kind of situation?

Answer: Debt experts sometimes advise against contacting collection agencies if you owe money, can’t afford to pay it back and are worried about being sued. The concern is that any response from you will trigger increased efforts to collect the money.

Since you don’t owe anything, though, there’s nothing to stop you from trying to end these annoying calls.

The CFPB recommends sending a letter to the collection agency demanding to know more about the alleged debt, including why the collector thinks you owe it, how old the debt is, how much is owed and details establishing the collector’s right to collect. The CFPB has a sample letter on its site you can use. Ideally, this letter would be sent within 30 days of the first phone call to preserve your rights under federal law, but there’s nothing stopping you from sending it at any point.

Once you have information about the supposed debt — or if the calls continue and the agency hasn’t responded — you can send a second letter telling the agency you don’t owe the money and to stop contacting you.

Q&A: Annuities can come with a tax surprise

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Dear Liz: I made a one-time purchase of a variable deferred annuity with a $10,000 inheritance I received about 25 years ago, based on a co-worker’s advice. Over the years I have not made any additional payments or withdrawn any funds. It matures in about a year with an option of withdrawing the lump sum, which was nearly $60,000 this year, or receiving monthly payments. Would I be subject to capital gains taxes for the entire $50,000 increase if I take the lump sum? Are there any special tax exemptions or rules I should be aware of?

Answer: The increase in your annuity’s value isn’t subject to capital gains taxes. Instead, the gain will be subject to higher — perhaps much higher — income tax rates, regardless of whether you choose the lump sum or monthly payments.

Variable annuities are insurance products that allow you to invest money tax-deferred for retirement. Like other retirement accounts, you could face penalties for early withdrawal in addition to income taxes if you take money out before you’re 59½.

Taking the lump sum could push you into a higher tax bracket and possibly cause a temporary increase in your Medicare premiums if you’re 65 or older. If you opt for monthly payments instead, you’re likely giving up access to the money in an emergency. (Annuitization means you’re giving up the lump sum you could have accepted in exchange for a stream of monthly payments that typically lasts for life.)

A tax pro can help you weigh the effects of the different withdrawal options on your finances.

Q&A: Social Security misunderstandings

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Dear Liz: As a former Social Security Administration employee, I can tell you there are countless times people misunderstand the information that is provided to them or only hear what they want to hear. There is no incentive for the employees to misinform or mislead people. Maybe you can begin your responses by saying, “If what you are saying is accurate,” instead of just assuming the worst and blaming the Social Security employees for people’s lack of knowledge.

The letter writer in a recent column not only indicated how helpful the employee was but also that they slept on the information and also discussed that with their trusted advisor. Your response assumed that the representative encouraged them to make a decision you indicated might not be the best.

Most employees do not encourage but inform people of their options. I am very disappointed that you once again chose to bash them with limited information and even when the person said how wonderful and knowledgeable the representative was, and even that they consulted with their trusted advisor.

Answer: The original letter writer mentioned that she learned in a chat with a Social Security spokesperson what her “break-even” point would be for waiting until full retirement age to start her benefit. My response pointed out that break-even calculations aren’t the best way to determine when to start Social Security, since they don’t include important factors such as inflation, tax rates and the impact of early claiming on survivor benefits. Many people also have a poor understanding of life expectancy and assume they will die before their break-even age when they probably won’t.

Social Security is an incredibly complex program, so people may indeed misunderstand what they hear from its representatives. But readers and financial planners alike report countless incidents in which representatives clearly gave inaccurate information. For example, people have been told they couldn’t suspend their benefit at full retirement age to earn delayed retirement credits (they can) or that they wouldn’t receive cost-of-living increases if they hadn’t started their benefits (not true — your benefit starts earning annual COLAs at age 62, whether or not you’ve started).

Bad guidance can be costly. A 2018 report by Social Security’s own inspector general found that faulty counsel from its representatives cost 9,224 widows and widowers approximately $131.8 million in benefits.

My responses aren’t intended to bash hardworking Social Security representatives but to alert readers that they should educate themselves about their options and seek guidance from financial experts before claiming.

Q&A: Student loan payoff and gift taxes

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Dear Liz: I adopted my granddaughter when she was 2. She has a number of student loans. Do I have the right to pay off her loans as her parent without tax consequences to her or to me?

Answer: Paying off someone’s student loans would be considered a gift. You may have to file a gift tax return, but you’re extremely unlikely to owe gift taxes.

The IRS requires you to file a gift tax return if you give any individual more than a certain amount in a year. (The 2023 annual exemption limit is $17,000.) You don’t owe gift taxes until the amount you give away above this annual limit exceeds the lifetime limit (which is 2023 is $12.92 million).

Your relationship doesn’t matter unless the recipient is your spouse. (You can give an unlimited amount to a spouse who is a U.S. citizen without gift tax consequences.)