Dear Liz: I have heard conflicting information about Social Security death benefits for a divorced spouse. We divorced after 18 years and I have not remarried. What percent of his benefit is available to me?
My own Social Security is low as it started as a disability payment and then converted to regular Social Security when I turned 65.
To the best of my knowledge, my former spouse was getting the maximum Social Security benefit. He was a very high wage earner. Can you provide a simple-to-understand answer? I have received conflicting information from numerous sources including three separate people at the Social Security Administration.
Answer: It’s concerning that you would get varying answers from Social Security representatives, since the answer is simple given the facts you describe.
You should be entitled to a survivor’s benefit that equals 100% of what your ex was getting when he died, said economist Laurence Kotlikoff, a Social Security expert who co-wrote “Get What’s Yours: The Secrets to Maxing Out Your Social Security.”
Your marriage lasted the required 10 years, and you would be starting survivor benefits after your own full retirement age, so the amount would not be reduced to reflect an early start.
The fact that you’re unmarried is irrelevant in this case. Survivors’ benefits are available even to those who remarry, as long as the subsequent marriage happens after the recipient reached age 60.
That’s different from spousal benefits for the divorced, which aren’t available after remarriage at any age unless the subsequent marriage ends.
It’s possible that some or all of the people you queried didn’t understand your question or thought you were asking about spousal rather than survivor benefits. Another possibility is that they just don’t know the rules.
That’s not unusual, Kotlikoff said. Social Security regulations are complex, and not all of its employees are experienced. Kotlikoff said he often hears from people who have been told things that are “outright wrong, partially wrong, incomplete or confused.”
Educating yourself with Kotlikoff’s book and the Social Security’s own site may be a better solution than relying on its employees for answers.
Confusing answer. She said she was divorced, not widowed.
She’s asking about survivor benefits for divorced spouses. She calls them death benefits in the first sentence, but they’re more commonly known as survivors or widow and widower benefits.