Dear Liz: I am three years younger than my spouse. I have been the primary breadwinner with significantly higher earnings over our 31 years of marriage as he was a stay-at-home dad for many years. Taking my spousal benefit will be much higher for him than his own, even if he waited until he was 70. Do I have to have filed myself in order for him to be able to claim a spousal benefit, or can he claim it when he turns 67 even if I do not file for another three years (when I turn 67)?
Answer: Your spouse won’t be eligible for a spousal benefit until you apply for your own. He could, however, get his own benefit for a few years and then switch to yours once you apply.
The ability to switch from one benefit to another is typically limited. If you were already receiving your benefit, for example, he wouldn’t be able to choose between his own and a spousal benefit when he applied. He would be “deemed” to be applying for both, and get the larger of the two.
One more thing to consider: Since you’re the higher wage earner, it’s important for you to maximize your own benefit because it’s the one that determines how much the survivor will get. Usually the best course is to wait until your benefit maxes out at age 70, but other factors, including health and potential spousal benefits, should also be factored in. Consider using a Social Security claiming calculator or talking with a financial planner to determine the best strategy for your individual situation.