Dear Liz: I am very overwhelmed with life so I’ll try to stick to where I need your help. My 68-year-old husband has been diagnosed with dementia. I thought we were responsible, having a nice nest egg of over $2 million, a house that is paid off and no debts. However, finding out long-term care costs, I am now terrified that it will all be depleted. Per your advice, I found a fee-only financial planner. I wanted his opinion about long-term care insurance for myself (my husband no longer qualifies). Turns out the planner will be the one to get the policy for me, should I decide to go forward. He’s recommending a hybrid policy with a death benefit, which means if I end up not using the long-term care coverage, the value will go to our children. I’m uncomfortable with the fact that this planner has an obvious stake with this long-term care policy and therefore might be biased with his advice.
Answer: If your advisor has an “obvious stake” in the policy you buy, implying that he will be paid a commission, then by definition he is not a fee-only financial planner. Fee-only financial planners are compensated solely by the fees they charge their clients.
What you may have encountered is a fee-based advisor, who collects fees from clients but also accepts commissions.
You want to be able to trust that the advice you get is in your best interests. That means you need a fiduciary advisor: someone who is obligated to put your interests ahead of their own and who is willing to put that promise in writing. If your advisor isn’t a fiduciary, you can find one who is through one of several organizations that represent true fee-only advisors, such as the National Assn. of Personal Financial Advisors, the Garrett Planning Network, the XY Planning Network or the Alliance of Comprehensive Planners.
The advisor also should be able to refer you to an elder law attorney who can discuss ways to protect your finances from being devastated by long-term care costs, or you can seek referrals directly from the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys.
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