Dear Liz: My brother and I have received a cash inheritance from our aunt, as have our cousins, among a few others. Our youngest brother was excluded, as was our cousins’ youngest sibling. I believe my aunt, who was 96 when she died and in her 80s when her will was done, simply forgot these two as the family was spread out and contact was infrequent. My brother and I want to do the right thing for our younger brother and give him an equal share from our inheritance. I know most states don’t have inheritance taxes, but since he won’t technically be inheriting it I wonder if there are any other tax implications for us or him.
Answer: Whenever gift taxes are owed, which is rarely, they’re paid by the giver.
Dividing your inheritance with your brother would be a gift to him, so he would owe no taxes. You might have to file a gift tax return if the amount you give him is more than $19,000 (the current annual gift tax exclusion amount). But you wouldn’t owe gift taxes until the amount you give away over that annual limit exceeds your lifetime limit, which in 2025 is $13.99 million. The same is true for your other brother — a gift in excess of the $19,000-per-recipient annual exclusion would require filing a tax return, but probably not paying taxes.
Gifts in excess of the annual exclusion also reduce the amount you can pass free of estate taxes after your own death. If you’re a multimillionaire and likely to face these taxes, please consult an estate tax attorney.
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