Dear Liz: Twenty years ago, after 14 years of marriage, a friend divorced her husband. She says that as part of her divorce settlement, she signed a document agreeing not to collect divorced spousal benefits from Social Security. Is that even legal? She’s in her 60s and fears she can never retire because her own Social Security won’t be enough to live on.
Answer: Your friend may well have signed such an agreement, but it doesn’t matter. Federal law — specifically Section 407(a) of the Social Security Act — forbids including Social Security benefits as part of a divorce settlement. In a fact sheet titled “5 Things Every Woman Should Know About Social Security,” the agency notes that some women have signed divorce decrees giving up their rights to divorced spousal benefits, but says such clauses “are worthless and never enforced.”
So if she’s entitled to a bigger benefit from her ex’s record than from her own, she can claim it.
A divorced spousal benefit doesn’t decrease the ex’s benefit, or the benefit of any of the ex’s subsequent spouses. Trying to prevent someone from claiming a divorced spousal benefit is mean-spirited as well as pointless.