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Q&A: My parents cut my kid out of their will. (Ouch!) Can I give her some cash?

June 10, 2024 By Sangah Lee

Dear Liz: My parents wrote my youngest daughter out of their will (my other children were left in). As both parents are now gone, I am in the process of settling the estate. I feel horrible that my parents did this. My daughter is very upset with me and her siblings for not sharing the inheritance. I am under the impression that there is nothing we can do about the will. Having said that, I would like to give my daughter a good amount of money but I believe I can’t give more than $18,000 a year. Am I correct in my two assumptions?

Answer: Yes and no.

Yes, as the executor of the estate, you’re bound to carry out your parents’ wishes as expressed in their estate planning documents.

But no, there’s no limit to how much money you can give someone. Gifts over a certain size — which is $18,000 this year — have to be reported to the IRS. But you won’t owe gift taxes until the amounts you give away over the annual limit exceed your lifetime limit, which is currently $13.61 million.

That said, a large enough gift could have an impact on your own estate. Consider getting advice from your estate planning attorney before you proceed.

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  1. Kelly S. Chambers says

    June 14, 2024 at 2:33 pm

    Hello Liz,

    My siblings and I inherited our father’s house as tenants-in-common. We’re all very old now, and, having no children, plan to leave our respectiveshares to each other. Would it make sense to change our ownership to Joint Tenants with Rights of Survivorship to facilitate this? This is in California, and we are worried that one person’s death will result in a reassessment of the property and a huge increase in property taxes. Two of us presently reside in the house. Thanks.

    • Liz Weston says

      June 23, 2024 at 11:10 am

      It’s always smart to talk to an estate planning attorney before changing how you own any property. The California law regarding property tax reassessments has several exceptions, including transfers between co-tenants.

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