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How to get an ex’s Social Security information

July 9, 2012 By Liz Weston

Dear Liz: I am 63 and divorced after being married over 10 years. I was told by our local Social Security office that I need my ex’s Social Security number in order to find out whether spousal benefits based on his record would be more than benefits based on my own record. I have his full name and date of birth, but I would rather not ask him for his Social Security number. If I do really need that, do you have any suggestions? Would some other type of information suffice?

Answer: The information you received from your local Social Security office is incorrect. You do not need your ex’s Social Security number to apply for spousal benefits, said Jonathan Peterson, AARP executive communications director and author of “Social Security for Dummies.” The more identifying information you can provide, the better, but the Social Security Administration can track down his records without it.

That said, you might want to dig around in your old files to see whether you can find a joint tax return, which will certainly have his number, or an old health insurance card, which might.

Spousal benefits are available to divorced people as long as they were married at least 10 years, are 62 or older and are currently not married.

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Filed Under: Q&A, Retirement Tagged With: Divorce, divorced spousal benefits, Social Security, spousal benefits

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  1. Edith weigle says

    August 8, 2012 at 6:21 pm

    This person needs to locate their divorce papers. The spouse’s ss# should be on that paper.

    • lizweston says

      August 9, 2012 at 2:23 pm

      Good suggestion!

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