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Q&A: Credit union loan helps son pay off debt

December 29, 2025 By Sangah Lee Leave a Comment

Dear Liz: My son ran up a lot of credit card debt and it got to the point where he could barely pay even the interest, which was exorbitant. He asked me for a loan, but I wanted something to formalize the process. I tried cosigning on a loan with him, but found that, as a retired person, my income is not enough.

Meanwhile, I have enough savings, and it occurred to me that perhaps I could use that money as collateral. Eventually, we found a credit union that would loan money as long as you had enough funds in a savings account. I put $11,000 into a savings account and my son was able to get a loan for $10,000. The interest rate is about 4%, well below the 12-18% we were quoted on personal loans from conventional banks and online lenders.

I had never heard of this type of loan before, and it might be a nice option for people who want to help their kids, but want to formalize the loan rather than just expecting them to pay it back on their own, which can become messy. Furthermore, my son’s payments will be reported to the credit bureaus, so it will boost his credit score.

Answer: Thanks for sharing your experience. Many credit unions offer what’s known as “share secured” or “deposit secured” loans, where a savings account serves as collateral for a loan. While the funds in the account are effectively frozen until the loan is paid off, the account still earns interest, offsetting the total cost of the loan.

When people don’t have enough funds of their own, using a parent’s account may be a possibility. People in a position to help an adult child this way should understand the potential risks, such as damage to the parent’s credit scores if the child misses a payment and the possibility of losing the money if the child defaults. The parent should also find out if it’s possible to be alerted if a payment is overdue, since that could give them time to make the payment and avoid credit damage.

Filed Under: Credit & Debt, Q&A Tagged With: consolidation loan, credit union, deposit secured loan, Paying Off Debt, secured loan, share secured loan

Q&A: How do you set up a savings account for a grandchild who lives overseas?

December 29, 2025 By Sangah Lee 1 Comment

Dear Liz: My son lives overseas. He just became a father. He plans to apply for U.S. citizenship for his dependent as an American born abroad. We would like to help save for our new granddaughter’s future. There are 529 accounts here.

Can he set up an account like that if he gets a Social Security number? Are there other options besides a 529 account for children born abroad?

Answer: If your son is a U.S. citizen and the child has a Social Security number or Individual Taxpayer Identification Number (ITIN), then he can open and contribute to a 529 plan benefiting the child.

So can you, and it may be even more beneficial for you to do so. Grandparent-owned 529 accounts, and distributions from those accounts, aren’t counted in federal financial aid calculations.

There are other options for saving for college, including regular savings or investment accounts, but 529s allow money to grow tax-deferred, and withdrawals are tax-free when used for qualifying educational expenses. That’s a significant advantage.

The money can be used at any school eligible to participate in a student aid program administered by the U.S. Department of Education, which includes the vast majority of U.S. colleges and many abroad. In addition, up to $10,000 annually can be used to pay tuition at elementary or secondary public, private or religious schools. Any unused money can be transferred to another family member. Plus, starting in 2024, up to $35,000 can be used to fund a Roth IRA.

Filed Under: College, Q&A Tagged With: 529, 529 accounts, 529 college savings plans, 529 plans, college financial aid, college savings plan, financial aid, grandparents

Q&A: My parents cut my kid out of their will. (Ouch!) Can I give her some cash?

June 10, 2024 By Sangah Lee

Dear Liz: My parents wrote my youngest daughter out of their will (my other children were left in). As both parents are now gone, I am in the process of settling the estate. I feel horrible that my parents did this. My daughter is very upset with me and her siblings for not sharing the inheritance. I am under the impression that there is nothing we can do about the will. Having said that, I would like to give my daughter a good amount of money but I believe I can’t give more than $18,000 a year. Am I correct in my two assumptions?

Answer: Yes and no.

Yes, as the executor of the estate, you’re bound to carry out your parents’ wishes as expressed in their estate planning documents.

But no, there’s no limit to how much money you can give someone. Gifts over a certain size — which is $18,000 this year — have to be reported to the IRS. But you won’t owe gift taxes until the amounts you give away over the annual limit exceed your lifetime limit, which is currently $13.61 million.

That said, a large enough gift could have an impact on your own estate. Consider getting advice from your estate planning attorney before you proceed.

Filed Under: Estate planning, Inheritance, Kids & Money, Q&A, Taxes Tagged With: disinheritance, estate plan, Estate Planning, gift tax, gift tax exemption, gifts, Inheritance

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